Good advice for non-religious family after miscarriage?

There are many good people on here and I ask for their personal advice. My girlfriend suffered a miscarriage yesterday. This would have been our second child. What resources are available to help her deal with such a terrible loss? Later, when she is doing better, I'll probably need a bit of advice for myself as well. Please remember, this is very real suffering I'm talking about, for both of us. At the moment I'm trying to decide whether or not to let her know I have pictures of the baby from the 4-D sonogram.